A wreath for my valentine

Life asked death?,”Why do people love me and hate you passionately?”. Death replied,’It is because you are a beautiful lie and I am the painful ultimate truth’ . Today marks six years since my niece breathed her last after getting into an accident off the swing, she must have fallen off and hit by aContinue reading “A wreath for my valentine”

Love in pain

To describe my illness as pain would be an understatement,if I were in perfect health, I would have completed my masters, perhaps writing a PhD. So when the stroke came in November 2016, I was in self denial well knowing that the acceptance letter was on the way So that is how things were toContinue reading “Love in pain”

The Beautiful Pain

I do love songs for their lyrical content because I relate to them now the song,’beautiful pain’- Eminem is on my mind its chorus goes like,Iam standing in the flames it’s a beautiful kinda pain setting fire to yesterday, find the light find the light. Now have you ever been at rock bottom and lifeContinue reading “The Beautiful Pain”

Empathy not Sympathy

Now these two words are used interchangeably to mean the reaction after an adversity but for the purpose of this post,it will be illness. What we need in life is empathy not sympathy because sympathy doesn’t understand,it doesn’t create a connection while empathy creates a connection and tries to understand. In 2017, I was broughtContinue reading “Empathy not Sympathy”